Paradigm Shift–References and resources

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Reference:

Brooks, D., Allen, J., & Barth, R. (2002). Adoption services use, helpfulness, and need: A comparison of public and private agency and independent adoptive families. Children and Youth Services Review, 24(4), 213-238.

Keck, Gregory C., and Regina Kupecky M. (1995). Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families with Special-needs Kids: A Guide for Parents and Professionals. Colorado Springs, CO: Piñon.

Trauma Lens Paradigm Shift

Resources to use to develop more understanding:

Fraiberg, Selma. (1996). The Magic Years: Understanding and Handling the Problems of Early Childhood. New York: Simon & Schuster.

Greenspan, Stanley I., and Beryl Benderly Lieff. (1998). The Growth of the Mind: And the Endangered Origins of Intelligence. Reading, MA: Perseus.

Hatkoff, Amy. (2007). You Are My World: How a Parent’s Love Shapes a Baby’s Mind. New York: Stewart, Tabori & Chang.

Hughes, Daniel A. (2012). Principles of Attachment-focused Parenting: Effective Strategies to Care for Children. New York: W.W. Norton, 2009. Brain-Based Parenting: The Neuroscience of Caregiving for Healthy Attachment. S.l.: WW Norton.

Keck, Gregory C., and Regina Kupecky M. (1995). Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families with Special-needs Kids: A Guide for Parents and Professionals. Colorado Springs, CO: Piñon.

Keck, Gregory C., Regina Kupecky M., and Lynda Mansfield Gianforte. (2002). Parenting the Hurt Child: Helping Adoptive Families Heal and Grow. Colorado Springs, CO: Piñon.

Margaret S., Fred Pine, and Anni Bergman. (2000). The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant: Symbiosis and Individuation. New York, NY: Basic.

Sears, William, and Martha Sears. (1995). The Discipline Book: Everything You Need to Know to Have a Better-behaved Child–from Birth to Age Ten. Boston: Little, Brown.

Siegel, Daniel, and Mary Hartzell. (2005). Parenting from inside out. London: Thorsons.

Siegel, Daniel J. (2007). The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well-being. New York: W.W. Norton.

Strohm, Kate. (2005). Being the Other One: Growing up with a Brother or Sister Who Has Special Needs. Boston: Shambhala.

Verrier, Nancy Newton. (1993). The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child. Baltimore: Gateway.

Reference

Ainsworth, Mary. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mary_Ainsworth

Cook, A., Spinazzola, J., Ford, J., Lanktree, C., Blaustein, M., Cloitre, M., DeRosa, R., Hubbard, R., Kagan, R., Liautaud, J., Mallah, K., Olafson, E., & Van der Kolk, B. (2005). Complex trauma in children and adolescents. Psychiatric Annals, 35(5), 390-398.

Cox, N. (1997). Treating parents and children together: a feminist look at exclusionary practices in family therapy and in child psychotherapy. Women and Therapy, 20(2), 89-101.

Gottman, J. (1997). Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child. Simon and Schuster: New York:

Kramer, L., & Houston, D. (1998). Supporting families as they adopt children with special needs. Family Relations, 47(4), 423-432.

Pickover, S. (2002). Breaking the cycle: A clinical example of disrupting an insecure attachment system. Journal of Mental Health Counseling, 24(4), 358-367.

Power, T. (2003). Promoting children’s mental health: reform through interdisciplinary and community partnerships. School Psychology Review, 32 (1), 3.

Rosenthal, J., Groze, V., & Morgan, J. (1996). Services for families adopting children via publicchild welfare agencies: use, helpfulness, and need. Children and Youth Services Review, 18(1/2), 163-182.

Ryan, E. (2002). Assessing sibling attachment in the face of placement issues. Clinical Social Work Journal, 30(1), 77-93.

Scheel, M., & Rieckman, T. (1998). An empirically derived description of self-efficacy and empowerment for parents of children identified as psychologically disordered. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 26(1), 15-28.

Schofield, G., & Beek, M. (2005). Providing a secure base: Parenting children in long-term foster family care. Attachment & Human Development, 7(1): 3 – 25.

Siegel, Daniel J. (1999). The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are. New York: Guilford.

Sheperis, C., Doggett, R., Hoda, n., & Blanchard, T., et al. (2003). The development of an assessment protocol for Reactive Attachment Disorder. Journal of Mental Health, 25(4), 291.

Tuber, Steven. (2008). Attachment, Play and Authenticity: A Winnicott Primer. Lanham, MD: Jason Aronson.

Wallin, D. Attachment in Psycholtherapy: (2007). Guilford, New York, NY.

Whitman, W. (1926). Leaves of Grass. Garden City, NJ: Doubleday & Co.

Parenting skills

Resources that will help gain these skills:

Christopher. (2009). Parenting Your Anxious Child with Mindfulness and Acceptance: A Powerful New Approach to Overcoming Fear, Panic, and Worry Using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications.

Hughes, Daniel Numerous books

James, Beverly. (1989). Treating Traumatized Children: New Insights and Creative Interventions. Lexington, MA: Lexington.

Karen, Robert. (1998). Becoming Attached: First Relationships and How They Shape Our Capacity to Love. New York: Oxford UP.

Keck, Gregory C., and Regina Kupecky M. (1995). Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families with Special-needs Kids: A Guide for Parents and Professionals. Colorado Springs, CO: Piñon.

Keck, Gregory C., Regina Kupecky M., and Lynda Mansfield Gianforte. (2002). Parenting the Hurt Child: Helping Adoptive Families Heal and Grow. Colorado Springs, CO: Piñon.

Siegel, Daniel, and Mary Hartzell. (2005). Parenting from inside out. London: Thorsons.

Siegel, Daniel J. (2007). The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well-being. New York: W.W. Norton.

Reference:

Tuber, Steven. (2008). Attachment, Play and Authenticity: A Winnicott Primer. Lanham, MD: Jason Aronson.

Attachment and trauma Daniel Siegel

Daniel Hughes

Bessell Van der Kolk

Deborah Gray

Negative Working Model John Bowby

Developmental Delays Stanley Greenspan, MD

Terry Brazelton, MD

William Sears, MD

Ages and Stages

Emotional Response Bessell Van der Kolk

Bruce Perry, MD

Daniel Siegel

Object Relationships Caroline Archer and Christine Gordon

Holly Van Gulden

Self-regulation Daniel Siegel

Sensory Dysfunction The Out of Sync Child and activity book

(Consult with a specialist in Sensory Integration)

References:

Cox, N. (1997). Treating parents and children together: a feminist look at exclusionary practices in family therapy and in child psychotherapy. Women and Therapy, 20(2), 89-101.

Erich, S., & Leung, P. (2002). The impact of previous type of abuse and sibling adoption upon adoptive families. Child Abuse and Neglect, 26(10), 1045-1058.

Hughes, Daniel and Baylin, Jonathan. 2012. Brain Based Parenting. Place: Norton.

Cox, N. (1997). Treating parents and children together: a feminist look at exclusionary practices in family therapy and in child psychotherapy. Women and Therapy, 20(2), 89-101.

Hughes, Daniel and Baylin, Jonathan. (2012). Brain Based Parenting. Place: Norton.

Peter, L. (1997). The Peter Plan: A Proposal for Survival. Bantam Books.

Scheel and Riekmann (1998)

Sousa, David A. (2001). How the Brain Learns: A Classroom Teacher’s Guide. Thousand Oaks, CA: Corwin.

Circle of Security: http://circleofsecurity.net/

Fay, Jim, and Charles Fay. (2000). Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood: Practical Parenting from Birth to Six Years. Golden, CO: Love and Logic.

Fraiberg, Selma. (1996) The Magic Years: Understanding and Handling the Problems of Early Childhood. New York: Simon & Schuster.

Greenspan, Stanley I., Serena Wieder, and Robin Simons. (1998). The Child with Special Needs: Encouraging Intellectual and Emotional Growth. Reading, MA: Addison-Wesley.

Gulden, Holly Van, and Lisa Bartels-Rabb M. (1993). Real Parents, Real Children: Parenting the Adopted Child. New York: Crossroad.

References:

Goodyear-Brown, Paris. 2010. Play Therapy with Traumatized Children. New Jersey: Wiley.

Hughes, Daniel and Baylin, John. 2012. Brain Based Parenting. Place: Norton.

Kinniburgh, K., Blaustein, M., and Spinazzola, J. 2005. “Attachment, self-regulation, and competency.. Psychiatric Annals, 35(5): 424-430.

Love and Logic Press, http://www.loveandlogic.com/

Ballard, Robert L. (2009). Pieces of Me: Who Do I Want to Be?: Voices for and by Adopted Teens. Warren, NJ: EMK.

Hatkoff, Amy. (2007). You Are My World: How a Parent’s Love Shapes a Baby’s Mind. New York: Stewart, Tabori & Chang.

James, Beverly. (1989). Treating Traumatized Children: New Insights and Creative Interventions. Lexington, MA: Lexington.

Karen, Robert. (1998). Becoming Attached: First Relationships and How They Shape Our Capacity to Love. New York: Oxford UP.

Karr-Morse, Robin, and Meredith Wiley S. (1997). Ghosts from the Nursery: Tracing the Roots of Violence. New York: Atlantic Monthly.

Keck, Gregory C., and Regina Kupecky M. (1995). Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families with Special-needs Kids: A Guide for Parents and Professionals. Colorado Springs, CO: Piñon.

Siegel, Daniel J. (1999). The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are. New York: Guilford.

Siegel, Daniel J. (2007). The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well-being. New York: W.W. Norton,.

Solomon, Marion Fried., and Daniel Siegel J. (2003). Healing Trauma: Attachment, Mind, Body, and Brain. New York: W.W. Norton.

Stern, Daniel N. (2000). The Interpersonal World of the Infant: A View from Psychoanalysis and Developmental Psychology. New York: Basic, 2000.

Verrier, Nancy Newton. (1993). The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child. Baltimore: Gateway, 1993.

References

Covey, Steven. http://www.stephencovey.com/blog/?tag=emotional-bank-account

Pickover, S. (2002). Breaking the cycle: A clinical example of disrupting an insecure attachment system. Journal of Mental Health Counseling, 24(4), 358-367.

Wallin, D. (2007). Attachment in Psycholtherapy: Guilford, New York, NY.

Hatkoff, Amy. (2007). You Are My World: How a Parent’s Love Shapes a Baby’s Mind. New York: Stewart, Tabori & Chang.

James, Beverly. (1989). Treating Traumatized Children: New Insights and Creative Interventions. Lexington, MA: Lexington.

Karen, Robert. (1998). Becoming Attached: First Relationships and How They Shape Our Capacity to Love. New York: Oxford UP.

Karr-Morse, Robin, and Meredith Wiley S. (1997). Ghosts from the Nursery: Tracing the Roots of Violence. New York: Atlantic Monthly.

Keck, Gregory C., and Regina Kupecky M. (1995). Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families with Special-needs Kids: A Guide for Parents and Professionals. Colorado Springs, CO: Piñon.

Siegel, Daniel J. (1999). The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are. New York: Guilford.

Siegel, Daniel J.(2007). The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well-being. New York: W.W. Norton.

Solomon, Marion Fried., and Daniel Siegel J. (2003). Healing Trauma: Attachment, Mind, Body, and Brain. New York: W.W. Norton.

Stern, Daniel N. (2000). The Interpersonal World of the Infant: A View from Psychoanalysis and Developmental Psychology. New York: Basic.

Verrier, Nancy Newton.(1993) The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child. Baltimore: Gateway.

Developmental maturation may begin with infant or toddler play before attempting mature activities such as board games or organized sports. A traumatized child’s development may become arrested with holes or gaps from missing simple and healthy parent/child interactions, lack of exposure to age appropriate activities, and the inability to manage the emotions evoked from the trauma.

The following resources provide ideas for learning through the senses such as with finger painting, modeling clay, playing on the playground and in a sandbox, sharing picture books, working along side a parent, nature walks, building block towers, playing catch, making and playing with crafts, etc.

Books:

I love you rituals Becky Bailey
365 Days of Baby Love Shelia Ellison & Susan Ferdinandi
The Preschooler’s Busy Book Trish Kuffner
The Children’s Busy Book Trish Kuffner
Sharing Family Time Aid Association for Lutherans
Sanity in the Summertime Linda Dillow & Claudia Arp
Baby Games Elaine Martin
Games to Play with Babies Jackie Silberg
101 Ways to tell your child I love you Vicki Lansky
10 minute Activities Priddy Bicknell
Focus on the Family Clubhouse Family Activity Book Marianne Kering
Preschool Play & Learn Penny Warner
The Happy Family Game Karin Phillips Tate
The Family hand-Me-Down Book Debbie O’Neal
The Special Needs Child Stanley Greenspan
Touchpoints T. Berry Brazelton
Discovery Toy Company offers multiple options

References:

Kinniburgh, K., Blaustein, M., and Spinazzola, J. 2005. “Attachment, self-regulation, and competency.. Psychiatric Annals, 35(5): 424-430.

Solomon, Marion Fried., and Daniel Siegel J. (2003). Healing Trauma: Attachment, Mind, Body, and Brain. New York: W.W. Norton.

Adler, Bill, and Peggy Robin. (2001). Outwitting Toddlers. New York: Kensington.

Allen, K. Eileen, and Lynn Marotz R. (1999). Developmental Profiles: Pre-birth through Eight. Albany: Delmar.

Brazelton, T. Berry, and B. King A. (1984). To Listen to a Child: Understanding the Normal Problems of Growing up. Reading, MA: Perseus,.

Clinton, Timothy E., and Gary Sibcy. (2006). Loving Your Child Too Much: How to Keep a Close Relationship with Your Child without Overindulging, Overprotecting, or Overcontrolling. Nashville, TN: Integrity.

Fay, Jim, and Charles Fay. (2000). Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood: Practical Parenting from Birth to Six Years. Golden, CO: Love and Logic,.

Greenspan, Stanley I., and Nancy Lewis Breslau. (2000). Building Healthy Minds: The Six Experiences That Create Intelligence and Emotional Growth in Babies and Young Children. Cambridge, MA: Perseus Pub.

Hanly, Sheila. (1998). Peek-a-boo!: 101 Ways to Make Baby Smile. New York: DK Pub., 1998.

Kopp, Claire B. (1993). Baby Steps. Freeman.

Hennessy, B. G., and Anthony Carnabuci. (1992). Sleep Tight. New York, NY, U.S.A.: Viking, 1992.

Huddleston, R, Madgwick, W., and Linsell, T. (1996). Time for Bed. Brookfield, CT: Copper Beech.

LeComer, L. (2006). A Parent’s Guide to Developmental Delays: Recognizing and Coping with Missed Milestones in Speech, Movement, Learning, and Other Areas. New York: Perigee.

Martin, E. (1988). Baby Games: For Every New Parent. Toronto, Canada: Stoddart Publisging.

Masi, W., and Leiderman. (2001). Baby Play. San Francisco, CA: Creative Pub. International.

Ripley, R., and Marie Ripley J. (1997). Your Child’s Ages & Stages. Carefree, AZ, USA: Carefrez.

Rosemond, J. (1993). Making the “terrible” Twos Terrific! Kansas City: Andrews and McMeel.

Silberg, J. (1993).Games to Play with Toddlers. Mt. Rainier, MD: Gryphon House.

Weston, D, and Weston, M. (1993). S. Playful Parenting: Turning the Dilemma of Discipline into Fun and Games. Los Angeles: Tarcher/Putnam.

Warnick, E. (1998). Bedtime. San Diego, CA: Browndeer.

References:

Erikson, Erik. http://psychology.about.com/od/psychosocialtheories/a/trust-versus-mistrust.htm

Mahler, M. S., Pine, R, & Bergman, A. (1975). The psychological birth of the human

infant: Symbiosis and individuation. New York: Basic Books.

Maslow, Abraham. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow’s_hierarchy_of_needs

Piaget, Jean. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jean_Piaget

Webinar: “Food for Thought: The Impact of Poor Nutrition in Early Development”: http://www.adoptionlearningpartners.org/nutrition_webinar.cfm

Adoptive Families Magazine article about nutrition: http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/articles.php?aid=2116
The Feeding Doctor: http://thefeedingdoctor.com
TrulyFood-classes including the Your Vibrant Child
Webinar: Nutrition and Institutionalized Children, Zeina Makhoul, PhD, RD.
Webinar: Introduction to Nutrition and Feeding for Internationally Adopted Children, Presenters: Dr. Zeina Makhoul, Kate Ward, Spoon Foundation.
Webinar: Feeding the First Year Home: Transitioning through feeding stages and to a new diet, Presenter: Kate Nelson Ward, MPH, CHES, SPOON Foundation.
Ellyn Satter, Child of Mine; Feeding with Love and Good Sense
Dr. Katja Rowell, Love Me, Feed Me: The Adoptive Parent’s Guide to Ending the Worry About Weight, Picky Eating, Power Struggles, and More
*SPOON Foundation-nutrition for orphaned  fostered, and adopted children one spoonful at a time. http://adoptionnutrition.org

Books:

Berg, F. M. (1997). Afraid to Eat: Children and Teens in Weight Crisis. Healthy Weight Publishing Network.

Piran, N, Levine, M., and Steiner-Adair. C. (1999). Preventing Eating Disorders: A Handbook for Interventions and Special Challenges. Taylor & Francis.

Siegel, M, Brisman, J., and Weinshel, M. (1997). Surviving an Eating Disorder: Strategies for Family and Friends. HarperPerennial.

Levenkron, S. (1982). Treating and Overcoming Anorexia Nervosa: Classic Guide with a New Introduction. Warner Books, Inc.

Nelson, T. (2008). What’s Eating You? A Workbook for Teens with Anorexia, Bulimia & Other Eating Disorders. Instant Help Books.

Natenshon, A. (1999). When Your Child Has an Eating Disorder: A Step-by-Step Workbook for Caregivers. Jossey-Bass Publishers.

DVD:

Eating Disorders Foster Parent College, Northwest Media, Inc. 2003.

Videos:

Anorexia and Bulimia Video Set Video set includes Tape 1 & 2. Educational Video Network, 1999.
Thea’s Mirror: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Teens with Eating Disorders The Bureau for At-Risk Youth, 1995.

References:

Greenspan, S. (1992). Infancy and Early Childhood: the Practice of Clinical Assessment and Intervention with Emotional and Developmental Challenges. International Universities Press, Inc: Madison, Conn.

Smolen, A. (2001). Connecting with Sara: facilitating attachment. Smith College Studies in

Social Work, 72(1), 53-77.

Wallin, D. (2007). Attachment in Psychotherapy: Guilford, New York, NY.

In Sync Activity Cards Simple, Fun Activity Cards to Help Every Child Develop, Learn, and Grow! Future Horizons, 2012.

Kranowitz, C. and Newman, J., (2010). Growing an In-sync Child: Simple, Fun Activities to Help Every Child Develop, Learn, and Grow. New York: Perigee.

Kranowitz, Carol Stock. (2005). The Out-of-sync Child: Recognizing and Coping with Sensory Processing Disorder. New York: Skylight Book/A Perigee Book,.

Kranowitz, Carol Stock. (2003).The Out-of-sync Child Has Fun: Activities for Kids with Sensory Processing Disorder. New York, NY: Perigee Book.

McClure, Vimala Schneider. Infant Massage: A Handbook for Loving Parents.

Miller, L. and Fuller, D. (2007). Sensational Kids: Hope and Help for Children with Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD). New York: Perigee.

Promislow, S. (1999). Making the Brain/body Connection: A Playful Guide to Releasing Mental, Physical & Emotional Blocks to Success. West Vancouver, B.C., Canada: Kinetic Pub.

Tuber, Steven. (2008). Attachment, Play and Authenticity: A Winnicott Primer. Lanham, MD: Jason Aronson.

References:

Sheperis, C., Renfron-Michel, E., & Doggett, R. (2003). In-home treatment of reactive attachment disorder in a therapeutic foster care system: a case example. Journal of Mental Health Counseling, 25(1), 79-89.

Gottman, J. (1997). Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child. Simon and Schuster: New York:

Pickover, S. (2002). Breaking the cycle: A clinical example of disrupting an insecure attachment system. Journal of Mental Health Counseling, 24(4), 358-367. Siegel, D. (1999). The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are. New

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